Music as a hobby -- is it helping or
hurting your family life?
Music hobby. Ask a room full of people what hobby
they have and you will get as many answers as there are people. Others
will confess that they donít have a hobby. They probably do; but just
donít label it as such. By definition, a hobby is an activity or interest
pursued outside one's regular occupation and engaged in primarily for
pleasure. And that goes for music as a hobby.
Whether stamp collecting, chat rooms, trains, soft ball, scrapbooking,
golf, reading, painting, tap dancing, yard work, crafts, auto mechanics,
music, hunting down garage sales, sewing, fishing, cooking, boating,
furniture refinishing, javelin tossing or a plethora of other activities
or interests the key element is balance. You must find balance between
your family life and your extracurricular activities.
Too much of a good thing turns bad. Everyone should have an outlet and a
special interest that they enjoy doing for themselves. Self indulgence, to
a point, is quite healthy. Escaping from day to day grinds to take some
time to devote to your special hobby or concentration is therapeutic.
Youíve all heard, ďif Mamma ainít happy, no oneís happy.Ē It doesnít
matter if your role is father, mother, husband, wife, boyfriend,
girlfriend, son, daughter, brother or sister, if youíre just going to work
or school and have no real outside activities, youíre probably not always
the most friendly person to be around.
Conversely, if you bury yourself and it seems to others that all you care
about or all you ever want to do is bang on the drums all day, youíre
setting yourself up or prolonging discontent. People deal with depression
in many ways. Some sleep all the time. Others want to do nothing but read,
read, read. Still others will spend hours upon hours downstairs building a
bigger, faster widget, just to avoid the real cause of their frustrations.
Hobbies are supposed to be a healthy outlet, not a catalyst to ignore
issues that need addressing.
Likewise, hobbies can get very expensive. Sure snow mobiles, motorcycles
and ski equipment are obviously expensive. But sometimes those seemingly
low cost activities can add up. You start out with trying to budget for
the monthly karate lessons. Then you need (or want) the gi, the uniform.
Donít forget about the protective sparring equipment. Perhaps you think
you need to have a heavy bag or some shields to help you practice. Figure
on $30-$50 per tournament that you enter. Of course thereís the uninsured
medical and orthodontia costs to be calculated in as well. ďLetís see, do
we pay the mortgage this month, so get that new helmet that you just have
If your hobby is doing more harm than good, if itís dipping into the
family budget and time allocation, more than you can or should be
spending, itís time to reevaluate. If youíre not doing something outside
your standard occupation that you enjoy, itís time to find something, for
your and your familyís sake!
Music as a hobby
Piano lesson courses that use chords
Keyboard Workshop was established in 1965 to help piano players of all levels enhance their piano playing ability though the use of chords, styles, rhythms, runs, fills and other strategies. So we've been around the block a couple times, and we know what works!
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Duane is a graduate of Southern Oregon University in Ashland, Oregon with a BS & Masters Degree in Humanities (Music & English literature - a double major) and he is
known as "the pianoman" -- the author of over 500 books,
CD's and DVD's having to do with all aspects of piano playing. But degrees and education means nothing without the ability to teach so that the student can UNDERSTAND and then APPLY what he or she understands. Take one course and you'll immediately see for yourself why Duane's
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clearly and plainly -- how to APPLY what you learn to your piano!
more fun teaching piano than should be legal,
and that love of piano playing and music in general is contagious.
No formalities here --
lots of laughs and exciting insights
into how to make the sounds you love -- whether that means
pop piano or praise & gospel piano or blues piano or ragtime piano or new age piano
or -- you name it.
He has worked with many doctors and professional people who otherwise wouldn't be able to attend a scheduled lesson in a studio, because they can do it on their own time. He also works with church pianists and music directors to help them hone their skills, as well as beginners that don't know Middle C from Tweedle Dee, and everyone in-between.